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Laying Down Your Life

Many People are confused about what true friendship means. These people don’t want to spend much time or effort on someone else ‘s behalf, so they stay away from friend who appear needy. Instead, they look for those who’ll give lots but won’t ask for much in return. they evaluate their friendship according to how much they can get out of them, not how much they can give. Their friends are objects designed to provide fun and pleasure, but not worth any sacrifices in return. Jesus modeled true friendship. True friendship comes at a cost.It casts time, and it costs energy. According to jesus’ standard.

Our best thingking

If there ever a time not to trust your own judgment ,it’s when you’ve been huet. When you think you’ve been treated unfairly, your first reaction is exactly that- a reaction. It’s defense mechanism: I’ve been hurt; I need to strike back. In your rush to retaliate, you’re likely to blow the situation out of proportion.

Other People’s Debts

         There are times when friends pressure you to fulfill obligations they have made? don’t do it. When someone makes a promise, they must carry it out. Don’t commit yourself to d if for them. Be a person who keeps your own promise but not those of someone else. For example, if a friend asks you to bail her out of a financial commitment she’s made,graciously decline. Or,if a classmate or coworker agrees to a large project, then tries to pass if off onto you,kindly but firmly refuse.

         Be careful in the way you commit yourself or you’ll find yourself so busy meeting the obligations of others that you have no time,energy, or money to keep your own commitments. This may sound like an unkind way to treat others, many young lives have been severely restricted because of overcommitment.It is foolish to link your life with the decisions of a fool.

        This is not to say you’re not to be helpful to others, only that you must allows them to face the responsibility for their own action. Even the closest of friendship have been destroyed because of bad depts and foolish commitments. Don’t allow yourself to be pressured into doing something out of guilt, for guilt is not the basis for true friendship.

Guard Your Mouth…

From debbie

               A japanese proverb says,”The silent man is the best to listen to.” Our generation can’t tolerate silence. We speak first and think later,sometimes we assume that the only words worth listening to are the ones coming out of our own mouths rather than really listening to our friends,we use their words as springboards from which to launch our own opinions.Even our best intentions can be sabotaged if we speak up too quickly. For example a friend shares a problem, and we blurt out bad advice without even thinking about the implications.
            Careless words,tossed out without thinking have more power than we might think. They have the power to hurt others or to embarrass them. Our foolish words are equally capable of hurting and embarrassing us. It is just as impossible to recover every hurtful word once it has left our mouth.When you are tempted to speak without thinking or to say something unkind, it’s better to say nothing at all.
            Every time you speak, your words have the potential either to bring joy to others or to cause great pain.
            In my opinion, A wise person knows the power in chosen words, she thinks before she speaks. Words of encouragement do not always come easily. Building up others requires us first to think about what they need to hear, stop talking long enough to listen to what the other person is saying. Set aside the desire to do all the talking and focusing attention on the other person. A fool on the otherside does not think before speaking,It never considers the importance of saying the right thing at the right time.Some of the deepest hurts people carry have come from careless words spoken by a fool.
           Begin by asking questions,listening more, and talking less. Silence have protection from regretting what you say.Silence is never as akward as rashly spoken words.
         According to my research,the trouble with talking too fast is you may say something you haven’t thought of yet.Our words and our actions reveal who we are,one of the biggest barriers to peaceful communication is failure to claim responsibility for our own words and behavior.No one can force you to speak improperly, what you say is your own choice. You are responsible for what comes out of your mouth so please guard your mouth.

Wait

Waiting is one of the hardest things to do in all world! if you have to wait for someone who is late,or you’re expecting something important in the mail, or if you’ve applied for a job and you’re waiting to phone to ring, waiting can almost drive you crazy!why is so difficult to wait ? waiting means you’re not in control.Someone else will determine what happen next. Whether you’re waiting on an inconsiderate friend, a slow postal system, or an indifferent employer, sitting helplessly can be excruciating.

Love Triangle

From debbie

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Love Triangle? This is the most painful situation in love.

Sometimes in love triangle the one who left must die or must suicide,or the one who left turn into something bad. Some say that what is the meaning of love if you dont feel any pain in your heart? I dont understand why we must hurt everytime when we are inlove. Why who knows how to love they are always leftover . I really hate third parties involving two guy after one girl,always result is punching in face infront of the girl.

This situation can cause us big problems in life.